Ellie Tesher Advice Columnist
  • Toronto
  • Toronto Star

Ellie Tesher is a relationship advice columnist for The Star. You can find her column "Ask Ellie" in the Life section.

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  • Relationships
  • Advice

514 Articles
over 1 year ago
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Advice | She’s a great woman, but I’m not attracted to her. Can I make this work? Ask Ellie

Also, readers offer advice about a long relationship now on the rocks.

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over 1 year ago
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Advice | Our marriage is wilting under the strain of two young children. What to do? Ask Ellie

Ellie advises talking to a professional — and letting the yard work slide.

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over 1 year ago
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Advice | How can we back out of a party for kids that’s also a cash grab? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader advises extra caution when planning to leave abusive spouse.

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over 1 year ago
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Advice | I’d like my male friend to be something more, but he has erectile dysfunction: Ask Ellie

Also, a reader asks Ellie about insensitive loved ones after a loss.

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over 1 year ago
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Advice | I worry that my mother’s new man could be a scammer. What can I do? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader defends relationships with age gaps.

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over 1 year ago
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Advice | My family once wrecked my relationship. How can I get past it? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader weighs in on getting past unhelpful parents.

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over 1 year ago
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Advice | Her ex tried to seduce me. Should I tell her? Ask Ellie

Forget the past encounter and focus on your son, Ellie advises.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | This drug saved my hair but I think it killed my libido: Ask Ellie

Staying with hair-loss drug despite its damage to your relationship is illogical, writes Ellie.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | When I fully grasped our parents’ abuse, it made accepting my brother easier: Ask Ellie

A reader details how she came to understand, over years, what was done to her.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Senior readers’ sexual issues deserve individual attention: Ask Ellie

Also, a reader weighs in on a friendship derailed by a breakup.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | We helped a niece with her university costs. Was that a mistake? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader hopes to reach out to a grieving widower.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | How can I end these wild accusations, and protect myself from my own family? Ask Ellie

Clear your name first, and leave parental drama behind you, Ellie advises.

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