Ellie Tesher Advice Columnist
  • Toronto
  • Toronto Star

Ellie Tesher is a relationship advice columnist for The Star. You can find her column "Ask Ellie" in the Life section.

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  • Relationships
  • Advice

514 Articles
almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Mom worries adult son is throwing it all away for love: Ask Ellie

Disapproval is the surest way to have him fully committed to staying in relationship. Surprise him and wish him well.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Reader looked back on her dating history — and learned a lesson: Ask Ellie

Also, a dating site reveals what its users find to be the keys to a relationship.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Our daughter’s special day included a wedding crasher. How should this be handled? Ask E...

Also, a reader questions the need for a partner who’s fiercely up-to-date.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | My husband cheated and left — and our daughter blames me: Ask Ellie

Daughter’s been sold a false story about divorce, says Ellie.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | I love my wife, but she has lost all interest in sex. What to do? Ask Ellie

Also, readers write it about a overbearing sister and an unsatisfying life.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | I’ve lost trust in my new husband. How we get that old feeling back? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader says a letter-writer moved too quickly with new boyfriend.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | My family won’t support me in the face of my brother’s attacks: Ask Ellie

Ellie sees a long, sad family story with no total innocents.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | I still have sex with my ex-husband — and that angers our kids: Ask Ellie

Children’s shock about lingering intimacy is really about the divorce, says Ellie.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | My narcissistic, alcoholic, long-ago ex is dead. Why do I feel such loss? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader says having a troubled teen do chores around your house isn’t helping.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | A secret dispute split my family apart — how should I handle it? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader defends opposite-sex friendship.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | My wife makes time for fun with friends — but not with me: Ask Ellie

Ellie advises a reader to speak with their wife about isolation — but not about any suspicions of isolation.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Marriage early or late — what works out best? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader shares an unhappy tale of being excluded from a relative’s final months.

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