Ellie Tesher Advice Columnist
  • Toronto
  • Toronto Star

Ellie Tesher is a relationship advice columnist for The Star. You can find her column "Ask Ellie" in the Life section.

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  • Relationships
  • Advice

514 Articles
about 2 years ago
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Advice | I’m close to my child, who has come out as non-binary. Is it my job to tell people?

It doesn’t matter what another’s “emotional response” to the information is, Ellie says. If negative, or the start of...

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Advice | My wife always scores with her punchline, which is usually me: Ask Ellie

Also, a reader has advice for a woman in a marriage without intimacy.

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about 2 years ago
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Advice | How should I respond to ‘Mean Girls’ tactics from grown women? Ask Ellie

Also, Ellie questions a plan for a troubled teen.

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Advice | Talking to him about chores leads to over-the-top anger. What to do? Ask Ellie

History of abuse requires reset of relationship, writes Ellie.

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Advice | My friend wants more activities alone with me. Is this romantic interest? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader cautions spouses about emotional affairs.

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about 2 years ago
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Advice | Should I just cut my overbearing sister out of my life? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader weighs in on Ellie’s salutation to her audience.

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about 2 years ago
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Advice | Should I follow my mother and settle down, or be fierce like my grandmother? Ask Ellie

Also, a family has a dog dilemma

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Advice | His sons create a wedge between us. Can I make this work? Ask Ellie

Advice | His sons create a wedge between us. Can I make this work? Ask Ellie

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Advice | Was this man just using me? Should I insist on getting answers? Ask Ellie

Don’t push for more info about this uncaring man — focus on your dog, Ellie advises.

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about 2 years ago
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Advice | My mother is trying to press a man on me, but I love someone else: Ask Ellie

Also, a reader explains what COVID has revealed about his social circle.

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about 2 years ago
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Advice | I let her go because it wasn’t romantic love. Or was it? Ask Ellie

Also, Ellie advises a reader about whether she should be willing to share a man.

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Advice | We blended our families, then it came apart. Where did I go wrong? Ask Ellie

New partner hadn’t fully dealt with his grief about his late wife, Ellie advises.

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