Ellie Tesher Advice Columnist
  • Toronto
  • Toronto Star

Ellie Tesher is a relationship advice columnist for The Star. You can find her column "Ask Ellie" in the Life section.

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Toronto Star

Focus Areas

  • Relationships
  • Advice

514 Articles
almost 2 years ago
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Advice | How could I have helped this woman who was ‘losing it’? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader is moved by a previous writer’s letter to recommend a book about asexuality.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Chance meeting with older man changed my life and gave me the courage to openly live it:...

Also, a reader seeks advice on tweaking a family ritual to make it easier on her.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Am I weird and nosy for loving the obituaries? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader is shocked by an old friend’s rumourmongering and more.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | My work mentor’s getting too personal. How can I get him to focus? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader takes issue with Ellie’s advice about an unhappy marriage.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | My son is furious about my remarrying. How can I calm him? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader wonders how to handle a sister’s unwelcome revelations about the past.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Can a relationship’s intensity be restored? This author shows the way: Ask Ellie

Carmen Harra’s book goes directly to reheating your sexual/love connection.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Do I have to talk about money with my partner? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader tells a story about a painful rift with a sibling.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Here’s what an author learned about undoing years of sibling estrangement: Ask Ellie

It starts at home, Fern Schumer Chapman learned after she conducted with 100 estranged siblings, using their voices i...

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Do I dare tell a new man about my past as a mistress? Ask Ellie

Embarrassing secret doesn’t limit future happiness, says Ellie.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | Even I don’t know why I broke up with her. What did I do? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader has an expensive online-dating experience.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | I’m in love with him, but he won’t take the next step. Can I persuade him? Ask Ellie

Ellie suggests that this man scarred from his divorce is not the one for her reader to build her life around.

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almost 2 years ago
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Advice | What Will Smith and Chris Rock show about anger: Ask Ellie

Author sees lessons in Smith’s eruption at the Oscars.

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