Ellie Tesher Advice Columnist
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Ellie Tesher is a relationship advice columnist for The Star. You can find her column "Ask Ellie" in the Life section.

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514 Articles
over 2 years ago
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Advice | Admit it when your hopes for a relationship are gone: Ask Ellie

A reader writes Ellie not to seek advice, but to offer some to others. Also, more on a young woman’s skimpy attire.

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over 2 years ago
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Advice | Girlfriend getting bossy after moving in — do we have a future? Ask Ellie

Also, Ellie advises standing up to a relative whose behaviour has taken a turn.

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Advice | Readers share their perspectives on woman in skimpy attire: Ask Ellie

Woman in low-cut dress and the older couple who talked about her get assessed by Ellie’s readers.

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Advice | I learned about her cheating, we got married anyway, and it didn’t stop: Ask Ellie

Also, a reader pleads for empathy on behalf even of who’ve abused others.

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Advice | How can I get my daughter to reject her lousy boyfriend? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader cautions others not to stay alienated from parents.

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over 2 years ago
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Advice | My husband hurt me, and I love my other man. So why won’t I leave? Ask Ellie

Advice | My husband hurt me, and I love my other man. So why won’t I leave? Ask Ellie

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Advice | We fixed our marriage, but I’m still angry about the cheating: Ask Ellie

Also, a reader writes in to memorialize a mother who just had to be the centre of attention.

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over 2 years ago
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Advice | My sleazy, cheating ex is gone and I’m finally taking care of me: Ask Ellie

Children are better off when a spouse finally pulls the plug on such relationships, writes Ellie.

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Advice | My husband’s family ignored me when I needed them most: Ask Ellie

Ellie suggests giving these rude women one last chance.

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over 2 years ago
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Advice | How can I avoid my underachieving cousin, despite my mom? Ask Ellie

Kindly explain that you can’t force friendship — even if your mothers are twins, writes Ellie.

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Advice | Can I get back in touch with my family despite my toxic dad? Ask Ellie

Letter-seeker, still grieving her sister, should protect herself before engaging with family, says Ellie.

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Advice | My mother’s having sex with my best friend’s father: Ask Ellie

Also, Ellie advises grandparents on what to say about the child living with them.

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