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Ellie Tesher
Advice Columnist
Ellie Tesher is a relationship advice columnist for The Star. You can find her column "Ask Ellie" in the Life section.
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Changed habits can give mom break she needs, Ellie advises.
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Also, Ellie advises caution when contemplating Boxing Day shopping.
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Ellie suggests that dealing with serious trauma is a job for professionals, not a romantic companion.
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Ellie points a reader down several different paths to the same destination.
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Start really talking and stop calling your wife a liar, Ellie advises.
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He’s not being open and honest, instead obscuring the truth that he’s possibly unable to sustain an erection or isn’t...
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The lawsuit is being used to keep his parents’ divorce still in play. Here’s my advice: focus on these children of di...
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Our widowed mother, early 80s and health-compromised, asked to see her granddaughters on Christmas. My brother has de...
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Forgive your daughter, writes advice columnist Ellie, in a bid to create a new understanding that there’s ongoing lov...
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Your sister’s reaction was extreme but likely circumstantial due to the traditions and emotions surrounding a family-...
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The wife and kids back home deserve better than this dishonesty, says Ellie.
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Also, a reader suggests ditching a boyfriend on meth.
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