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Ellie Tesher
Advice Columnist
Ellie Tesher is a relationship advice columnist for The Star. You can find her column "Ask Ellie" in the Life section.
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Also, a reader suggests the boyfriend deserves some blame after his girlfriend’s meeting with his family went disastr...
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To understand why your relationship still exists, you have to be fully honest with yourself, Ellie says.
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“My own mother confessed how she grew to hate my dad for the hell he put her through during the 10 years he would for...
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Also, Ellie provides an example of readers’ smaller pandemic crises.
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Also, Ellie hears from a reader whose boyfriend is deeply, mysteriously unhappy.
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Ellie suggests that this lingering dispute has to be handled calmly, and privately.
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What matters through every major life experience that involves loss is what everyone involved actually learns from it...
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It’s important to reflect on how your partner’s treated you while dating and then living together, Ellie says.
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SAD, the fitting acronym for Seasonal Affective Disorder, has been understood by doctors and scientists for many year...
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You’re all mature adults who can speak up when it’s needed, Ellie says.
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Ellie asks: Do you have enjoyable, companionable time together? Do you have any common interests and/or support each ...
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Disallowing your daughter into your jointly owned home showed little regard for you, Ellie says.
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