Ellie Tesher Advice Columnist
  • Toronto
  • Toronto Star

Ellie Tesher is a relationship advice columnist for The Star. You can find her column "Ask Ellie" in the Life section.

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Toronto Star

Focus Areas

  • Relationships
  • Advice

514 Articles
about 2 years ago
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Advice | Money drove a wedge between me and my son. What can be done? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader defends women who choose to keep their maiden name.

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about 2 years ago
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Advice | After what he said, can our relationship be fixed? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader suggests an ex-wife from 30 years ago shouldn’t seem like a threat to a current relationship.

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about 2 years ago
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Advice | I started an affair with my married boss, and he’s guilting me into staying: Ask Ellie

Also, a reader gives advice on habits to defeat seasonal affective disorder.

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about 2 years ago
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Advice | How can online daters know they’re being hustled by love bombers? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader has advice regarding a relationship with a married man.

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about 2 years ago
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Advice | How can I keep my father from wallowing in sadness after breakup? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader expresses support for a husband who keeps in touch with an ex from 30 years ago.

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about 2 years ago
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Advice | Fix your relationship with yourself by talking it out: Ask Ellie

Ellie talks to an author with advice about fixing your inner monologue.

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over 2 years ago
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Advice | My roommate’s friend says unacceptable things. Should I bring it up or leave? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader writes in defence of online dating.

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over 2 years ago
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Advice | How much can I be to expected to change, and sacrifice, because of my wife’s illness? As...

Also, a reader warns others about certain shady dating sites.

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over 2 years ago
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Advice | My dad is infected with COVID and refuses to isolate. What can I do? Ask Ellie

Also, a reader wonders what a widow should know about her late husband’s teenage romance.

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over 2 years ago
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Advice | I grew up in an alcoholic home — and ended up an alcoholic: Ask Ellie

Alcohol use disorder touches a nerve in countless readers, including people of all social strata, financial condition...

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over 2 years ago
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Advice | Dad’s grief won’t go away as he feels responsible for mom’s death from cancer: Ask Ellie

Find a grief therapist for your father, writes advice columnist Ellie, which is someone trained to deal with the deep...

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over 2 years ago
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Advice | The breakup was bad, so why can’t I move on entirely? Ask Ellie

Also, readers offer advice about dealing with an alcoholic, ranting husband.

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